Asking for Help

For those of us who are spinning too many plates or burning too many candles at all ends or giving up altogether and devoting their lives to working Sudoku puzzles…and the hell with it…

Delegate!

It takes a village.  Why not call on people for help, especially when it’s a win-win for everyone.  Why didn’t I learn this lesson in kindergarten? Read More

Learning to Delegate

“Blogland” has been a distant star for me the last couple of months.  That’s what happens when you sink into the abyss of “overwhelm.”  Like many of us, I feel like the guy who appeared on the old Ed Sullivan show keeping all those plates spinning in the air.  When one begins to wobble and head south this desperate man rushes to the rescue, only to be distracted by a new wobbler at the end of the row.

I love my life and what I do and the glorious people I get to hang out with day after day.  I say “yes” because “yes” means life to me.  But too much of a good thing is not a good thing. Read More

“Uke” Can Change the World

My ukulele group, The CC Strummers, enjoyed an extra special treat on Monday.  And I mean extra special!  “Jumpin'” Jim Beloff, one the of seminal figures in the modern-day renaissance that is “ukulele,” visited the Culver City Senior Center for a teach-a-thon, storytelling and kanikapila (which means we all get to sing and play along).

Years ago, Jim and his wife Liz sensed something special about this humble little instrument, trusted their instincts and let that intuition guide them forward.  So what do we have today?  Their fabulous music books, Fluke & Flea Ukuleles and a world-wide presence, teaching and spreading ‘dem good ukulele vibes from “Down Under” to “Up Over.”

The ukulele has swept them into so many different circles of people.  They have connected with hundreds of ukulele groups as well as with the iconic figures in music who happen to embrace the ukulele too.  The list is long and Jim shares a couple stories with us.  This one especially resonates with me:

Enter Bette Midler.  Although she was born and raised in O’ahu, she never learned to play the ukulele or any instrument for that matter.  She began her career as the “girl singer” and of course grew into the extraordinary entertainer we know today.  But since she could not accompany herself, she is dependent on other musicians to play for her as she performs.

She is already an icon, a star when she contacts Jim to give her lessons on the ukulele.  He doesn’t give private lessons but laughs and says to us “when Bette Midler calls, you say YES.”

This woman is such a pro and knows that what “looks easy” on stage actually takes a lot of work and she is willing and ready to put in the time and effort to learn a few chords and strums on the uke.  By the third lesson, she excitedly brings Jim into her house, sits him down across from her and she sings AND plays the Beatle song “With A Little Help From My Friends.”

As Jim describes this sunshine moment he tells us that he sees that look in her face that he has seen a thousand times.  It happens when a person picks up the uke, strums and sings a song, at the same time, for the first time.  Ever.

Whether we are a Bette Midler or not.  It doesn’t matter.  The feeling and the joy of it all are the same.  May we never lose that thrill and wonder, no matter what that first time is…

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