How’d they Do That?

Let me explain. In this picture I am the “person” on the right. Pointing at the zillion-dollar Lexus sedan which is just out of camera shot, as they tell me I might win it. Yes, welcome to Fantasyland? Oh and the nice lady on the left, in gray, completely in gray, is employed by the Cirque du Soleil to entertain and charm the audience before we are ushered into the Grand Chapiteau. That’s “tent” to the rest of us.

My friends and I are making a day of it at the beach in Santa Monica. It’s a postcard-perfect afternoon as we walk the half-mile from the parking lot past the pier, the bustle of families, strollers, oddballs, roller-bladers, bikini-clad California girls, all savoring the warm sunshine on this first weekend in March. Maybe it IS Fantasyland after all…

Of course the Cirque du Soleil is a wonder of sights and sounds and bodies that bend and fly. The flying part I get, thanks to the cadre of black-garbed tech guys who work the pulleys, but all that body bending? As one act follows another I hear a familiar mantra ringing in my head “how the hell do they do that?” This particular show, OVO, embraces the world of bugs, so there are a lot of insect-like movements on stage, but one in particular grabs my attention because I’ve actually tried to do it myself!

No, not bite my toenails… let’s back up a little. I do yoga. My poses are half-baked, my technique is pitiful, but I do it anyway and am flexible enough to bend forward and touch my palms to the floor. To the right is a picture of another pose, the “bridge pose.” I wish I could tell you that is ME doing it, but…

 

in real life, this what MY bridge pose looks like.

 

 

 

Enough said.

So back to the Cirque…

Midway through the show this lithe young lady appears on stage, dressed elegantly as a red crawly bug. I’m not sure if she has bones in her spine because now she is bending backwards into the bridge pose as if it is normal. As if this is how she gets her money at the ATM. And then she crawls, she crawls across the stage, all spider-like in that damned bridge pose. Can you picture this? I mean a little baby learns how to crawl across the floor and we go “ooo, look at that” and clap our hands. But if that same baby flips over and clunks upside-down over to grandma, the parents will freak out and throw all their DVD’s of “Alien” into the trash.

So back to the Cirque…

When you see an extraordinary demonstration like this, of the marvel and majesty of the human body in motion, it is art. You get it at a gut level. Analyzing the parts can wash the color out of the whole and leave it as gray as the Infiniti Lady. And badgering myself that “I can’t do that, I never will do that, I never could do that” like that, puts a little damper on things too.

So I’m glad to report that the next morning I do my 25 minutes of yoga in our little living room with a cup of steaming oolong tea nearby and revel in this miracle of having a body that still moves and bends and feels. Something.

Asking for Help

For those of us who are spinning too many plates or burning too many candles at all ends or giving up altogether and devoting their lives to working Sudoku puzzles…and the hell with it…

Delegate!

It takes a village.  Why not call on people for help, especially when it’s a win-win for everyone.  Why didn’t I learn this lesson in kindergarten? Read More

Learning to Delegate

“Blogland” has been a distant star for me the last couple of months.  That’s what happens when you sink into the abyss of “overwhelm.”  Like many of us, I feel like the guy who appeared on the old Ed Sullivan show keeping all those plates spinning in the air.  When one begins to wobble and head south this desperate man rushes to the rescue, only to be distracted by a new wobbler at the end of the row.

I love my life and what I do and the glorious people I get to hang out with day after day.  I say “yes” because “yes” means life to me.  But too much of a good thing is not a good thing. Read More

“Uke” Can Change the World

My ukulele group, The CC Strummers, enjoyed an extra special treat on Monday.  And I mean extra special!  “Jumpin'” Jim Beloff, one the of seminal figures in the modern-day renaissance that is “ukulele,” visited the Culver City Senior Center for a teach-a-thon, storytelling and kanikapila (which means we all get to sing and play along).

Years ago, Jim and his wife Liz sensed something special about this humble little instrument, trusted their instincts and let that intuition guide them forward.  So what do we have today?  Their fabulous music books, Fluke & Flea Ukuleles and a world-wide presence, teaching and spreading ‘dem good ukulele vibes from “Down Under” to “Up Over.”

The ukulele has swept them into so many different circles of people.  They have connected with hundreds of ukulele groups as well as with the iconic figures in music who happen to embrace the ukulele too.  The list is long and Jim shares a couple stories with us.  This one especially resonates with me:

Enter Bette Midler.  Although she was born and raised in O’ahu, she never learned to play the ukulele or any instrument for that matter.  She began her career as the “girl singer” and of course grew into the extraordinary entertainer we know today.  But since she could not accompany herself, she is dependent on other musicians to play for her as she performs.

She is already an icon, a star when she contacts Jim to give her lessons on the ukulele.  He doesn’t give private lessons but laughs and says to us “when Bette Midler calls, you say YES.”

This woman is such a pro and knows that what “looks easy” on stage actually takes a lot of work and she is willing and ready to put in the time and effort to learn a few chords and strums on the uke.  By the third lesson, she excitedly brings Jim into her house, sits him down across from her and she sings AND plays the Beatle song “With A Little Help From My Friends.”

As Jim describes this sunshine moment he tells us that he sees that look in her face that he has seen a thousand times.  It happens when a person picks up the uke, strums and sings a song, at the same time, for the first time.  Ever.

Whether we are a Bette Midler or not.  It doesn’t matter.  The feeling and the joy of it all are the same.  May we never lose that thrill and wonder, no matter what that first time is…

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